So many times we get upset by what others do. Your boss says something that really ticks you off. Your spouse continues to leave dishes all over the kitchen. On the way home you get cut off by another driver on the highway. Then afterwards you can't seem to be able to let it go. When things like this happen to you, it can be difficult to realize but important to learn that you can't control what other people choose to say, choose to do, choose to think, or choose to feel. If you attempt to control any of these, you will likely end up feeling frustrated, angry or depressed. The important …